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“The idea that it is somehow pejorative I think just doesn’t hold water, just by the fact that people are choosing to self-identify that way,” he told ABC.
In an article entitled ‘Nude Jude’s Not A Huge Issue’, the New York Post wrote: ‘In snapshots that recall George Costanza’s infamous “shrinkage” episode on Seinfeld, the love-rat actor’s meager manhood is on full display as he changes into a swimsuit outside his mother Maggie Law’s house in Vaudelnay, France.’Yet when Kate Middleton was papped sunbathing topless in 2013, everyone was furious. As a single gay man on dating apps, I often fed the cycle myself, ignoring messages just because the attached photos had either failed to pass my subconscious hotness test or reminded me of something I hated about my own physical appearance.And so I ended up rejecting probably-great guy after probably-great guy, all the while lamenting the lack of love in my life.The root of my anxiety was fairly in a preoccupation with idealized male bodies.The novel describes its protagonist, Fred Lemish, as having "built up his body into a fatless state of being in Great Shape," yet consistently failing in his "desperate search for permanence, commitment and love."One need only tap around on the gay hookup app Grindr to see this script played out today, nearly 40 years later.
Yes, fair enough, he wasn't being diplomatic or sensitive, which, as Prince would say, is sadly a sign o' the times, but in an age of over-opinionated people who constantly over-share, this is the new normal.